the question is: drink more?
nothing irks me more than when a celebrity comes out as gay and people comment “obviously”, “knew it”, “saw that one coming” and even “would have been more surprised if they had come out straight” etc. etc.
like it’s just so fucking rude
i admit i’ve sometimes thought it but when it’s said in such a way that makes it seem almost negative and pointless to have come out it just disregards how hard and brave it is to do something like that and how important it is for people to have a figure like that publicly out